"no REality only Perspective"

I saw that quote by Wayne Dyer in Oprah Magazine while I was checking out at the grocery store.  But what if you see so many perspectives?  Which one, which one...

To me nothing is fixed, except when I am stuck.  I get stuck all the time.  My toilet mirrors this, some resistance to letting go.  Oh Darn!

I notice people are saying things and those things seem true, so true, a perspective I have worn til it builds a reality around me, thick with solid foundations, a house or prison I have built for myself, by feeding energy into particular thoughts over and over. 

Then I am with someone who is neutral, and loving.  I say those words and realize they are not true, if I don't want them to be.  It is so simple, it is embarrassing, 

Being ok with embarrassment is great progress.  Instead of the pride or arrogance, of letting it control.  Ok there I made a mistake, an interesting creation that had well, interesting manifestations. poof, onward.  We can as easily take down the house/prison and letting that go, create from a new perspective of willingness to be innocent, compassionate, nonjudgemental, kind to ourselves on our unique path.