ok I see it

An early morning dream, people moving along  "J" road, I am going in the opposite direction,  I see a friend in the long line, and I go closer to him in passing to say hello.  Hello Hello, but he can not see me., but he can hear and is trying to find where the voice is coming from. He is holding onto his son's hand, his glasses in his belt loop.  There is a tenderness I feel..  As I contemplated this dream - he can't see me - though I can see him - yet he can hear - here was an aha. spirit is asking me to expand my perception.

Do we stay in relationships where the other person can not see us?  Or shut the door if they can't? And then dim our light so they can.  Or heal them.  Is all this acceptable or not, black and white,  Do we judge ourselves?
Is there room to grow and change in our relationship space?  Can we let people be as they are?  Can we appreciate what is

Do we have permission to love ourselves unconditionally for who we are?  And them. Can we have  the love we so easily give to others to our self.  First?

Do we have fixed ideas, or attachments to how it should be,  and forgive ourselves for that and accept what is.

Do we isolate, or put expectations on others to fulfill our needs. Or is it ok to have needs and ask for them

For me, it is the old feelings of loss and abandonment, anger I get to feel.  Then something shifts.

Is beening seen on your must have list for close relationships.

Do you look outside for that validation, or show up in your full light.

Maybe that is a quality I can give, while the other person has something else to give - who knows?
Can it all be Aok.  and joyfully so.

We each are in a unique journey. With our own timing.  Being willing to discover our own truth, through our own experience, paying attention to the clues the universe is providing in a kindly way that only one's own heart can understand is our unique information and wisdom, we are our own experts.   Giving permission to access that wisdom, and information as resources.


Rock Water Flower Essence is a wonderful  helper for building one's inner castle.

Does this stimulate any ideas in your world?  Please share I would love to here from you