where do you feel most alive and connected?

I have been looking at this question from different angles.  With the long winter "feeling" isolated can lead to reaching out for conversation, but does it enliven or leave one drained. 
I dip in and out of group situations, but am not feeling very good with it, as if it is a job, not a pleasure. I feel squashed. One group, I know I can not talk about spirit - which has been the guiding light of my healing of my life and dealing with my challenges.  That is a big part of who I am, yet if others are not comfortable with that, I don't want to disturb the status quo - of the group anyway.  Hum

I decided though that I need to let go of going to them, and welcome the new - unknown.


Then this quote came up on Face book by Almine

"When the human soul feels alienated from Source, it seeks a situation that offers a sense of belonging - as in a tribe.  The tribe how ever, stunts growth because it requires conformity.  Solitude is the price of Greatness

This brings clarity to me

Do you struggle with this?